Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Parental Do's and Don'ts

The do list has already been covered in the previous posts, and they will continue to be talked about in future posts. Keep following the guidelines I have previously talked about and you will have a great chance of getting your child noticed.

I want to take a few minutes and list some of the don'ts. Hopefully you can learn from some of the mistakes I made during the process.

First: Don't alienate any of the programs that are looking at or have offered your child. During Vince's recruitment I allowed people's comments about me and my son to get to me, and as a result I bad mouthed one of the programs that offered him. In hindsight I shouldn't have paid attention to what people were saying and just stuck by what I knew to be true about that program, and that was that the program was a first class organization. It's very easy to get caught up in the criticisms of your child, and your natural reflex is to lash out. Remember to always consider the source before you react.

Second: The NCAA has very strict rules regarding the recruitment of prospects. Before you do ANYTHING that you're unsure about...check with that college's compliance office to make sure it's okay. There are restrictions on who you can talk to, where you can go, and what you can and cannot accept from people or schools. Always check with the compliance office before you do anything that might be considered a gray area.

Third: Allow your child to make their own decision in regards to what school they choose. The fact is that maybe the school you always dreamed of them playing for may not be their best choice. And your choice may not be their choice. Look objectively at every option, check the depth chart, see how they use kids at your child's position, check the academics, location, coaches, and teammates. After you thoroughly research everything, you can guide your child and weigh the pros and cons with him. With your help he will be able to make his own educated choice.

Fourth: Remember to be supportive and keep the process fun. Your child will have a lot of attention on him during this process, and with attention comes pressure. As a parent you shouldn't be too overbearing...he'll get enough of that from the colleges recruiting him, and the critics criticising him.

Until next time you can write me at: RecruitingInsider.Mark@gmail.com

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Promoting Part II

Obviously performing well at camps, combines, and in games (especially when you make the papers aware) will get you attention from colleges. Many of them subscribe to recruiting services, and they routinely look at both Rivals and Scout (despite their denials). I can personally attest to having a college coach contact me shortly after something I said on a Rivals.com message board, and then have that same coach tell me 2 weeks later that they don't pay any attention to the recruiting sites. THEY DO!

All of that being said, I still believe that you must be proactive and contact the colleges you're interested in on your own. There's a link to the right of this blog that lists all of the DI programs & several lower division schools. The link will take you directly to that school's Rivals.com site (these are not the school's official sites), and you can look on these sites to see who and what types of players these schools are offering. The link is also a great way to Google search the official sites of the schools you're interested in.

The best way to get a college's contact information is on their official website. Nine out of ten times you will need to go to the athletic department's page, and look for the staff directory. You will often find a list of the coaches, their email addresses, and phone numbers. If you cannot find individual information you can always address any film to the "Recruiting Coordinator". You should be able to find an address for the program on the school's site...if not you can call the athletic department itself and ask for the address.

Now that you have the contact information you can send out your game film. I suggest that you mail a highlight video every 3 games. If you're creating email links of your film you can also email the coaches your highlights. I would also email them about any accolades, links to newspaper stories, links to Internet stories, and any stats for a great game you may have had. Be sure to include your personal contact information with each email or land mail you send.

Don't be discouraged if you don't hear anything right away. It doesn't mean they aren't looking, and often the NCCA restricts the contact that colleges can have with recruits. If they're interested they will attempt to find out more about you by contacting you directly (when they can) or by talking with your head coach.

Always keep a copy of your best whole game film available. Highlights often peak a college's interest, but once they're interested they will ask for a whole game film. This allows them to see how you perform when you're not making a highlight. I would also coordinate with your head coach and make sure he has several copies (DVD or VHS) of your highlight video and your best game. Colleges often stop by to talk to your coach without your knowledge, and having these videos handy will make sure the colleges don't leave your school empty handed.

Don't pester the coaches with long frequent emails. Your goal is to sell yourself to them with VALID film and stats. Coaches have little time for frivolous emails and film. Eventually they will recognize you as a waste of their time and promptly delete your emails or round file your film. Keep your emails and letters to the point, and be honest with yourself...are you really what they're looking for? If so....good luck and god bless!

As always you can post a comment if you have a question or send me an email to: RecruitingInsider.Mark@gmail.com

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Promoting Part I

We have talked about promoting yourself through camps, combines, and film. Now I want to talk about how to use all of these things to promote yourself directly to colleges.

Sure great performances at a camp or combine will get you recognition, but why allow the recruiting sites or media outlets at these events to be the only ones talking about you? Why not do it yourself? Not every program subscribes to a recruiting service, and many newspaper prep writers (who happen to vote for the all state teams that colleges DO pay attention to) don't subscribe to the recruiting sites either.

So in part one lets talk about getting yourself some recognition from the newspapers. Of course not every paper in your state cares what you did on Friday night because they have their own area to cover, BUT when it comes time to put the all state teams together...the more writers that know your name the better.

So how do you get your name to them? Well in Florida (and I'm sure in other states...you can do a Google search to find out) the Florida Sports Writer Association makes the all state selections. I looked up their web site by doing a Google search, and found a list of all the member papers including the email addresses of the prep writers.

Every Friday night or Saturday morning after I had tallied my son's stats from the previous game (we watched the game film every Friday night...as should you since you're taping them ...I hope) I would email his numbers to all of the prep writers on the FSWA member list.

I would also email them whenever my son's performed well at a camp, combine, or received an accolade for being an outstanding player.

Be honest and don't lie to the papers...they can double check with the high school coach about your son's numbers. You may be a few tackles or yards off from the school's numbers, and that's expected but to just purposely make up stats will get you in trouble.

Your goal should be to get your son's name out there every chance you can to these papers. Don't let a single writer get by that doesn't know his name. When all the state selections come around he will at least be in the discussion...assuming he had a great season.

This is one area where parents often don't think about promoting their child. They're always intent on sending things to schools (and that's good) but they forget about the prep writers. The more press the better. There's a link to the FSWA to the right of this blog. Search to find out how, and who votes on a particular state's all state teams, and follow the advice above.

You can also include a link to your child's highlight video in your emails. This allows the writers a chance to see him for themselves.

The next blog will cover promoting to colleges themselves. As always you can ask a question by leaving a comment or sending an email to: RecruitingInsider.Mark@gmail.com.

Sunday, March 9, 2008

Introducing Mike James

I spoke a few posts back about the GREAT FREE highlight videos that Derek Williams of Sunshinepreps.net does. If you live in Florida you should NEVER pay to have your highlights done. There is also a Georgiapreps.net and a Texaspreps.net....visit the link to Sunshinepreps on the right for all the contact information.

I wanted to share an example of his work with you by linking this FIRST LOOK VIDEO of Ridge Community High's 2009 RB Mike James. The video says it all, and thanks to this video the DI offers are coming in! Here is Mike: http://youtube.com/watch?v=PdhuxmRu3w8

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Recruiting Mail

I want to talk a little bit about recruiting mail, what it means, the different types, and how a university probably heard about you causing them to send it.

When you begin getting mail from schools it will probably arrive in your head coach's school mail box. It's not uncommon for high school coaches to check their mailboxes very INFREQUENTLY so after you get the first stack of letters from your coach...you may want to check with him on a weekly basis to see if you have gotten anymore.

The first type of letters you are likely to receive will be "form letters" that schools send out to hundreds of prospects. You will recognize these letters by their lack of hand written signatures or hand written notes. Most likely a graduate assistant or recruiting assistant at that school has gotten your name from an all county, all state, or recruiting service list that they subscribe to. They really don't know who you are despite what the form letter may say, but you have somehow made their list and they are now trying to find out more about you.

Another type of mail you will receive in the beginning of the recruiting process is a prospect questionnaire. This is how a school gets your contact information (home address, phone number, etc...) after you fill these out and mail them back...you will start getting letters mailed directly to your home. YOU SHOULD FILL ALL QUESTIONNAIRES OUT AND MAIL THEM BACK.

There is a section on every questionnaire that asks what your top 5 schools are. I suggest that you always list the school that is sending you the questionnaire as #1. Every school has an ego, and if you mail the form back in and you rank them very low or don't list them at all...they may assume you have no interest in them, and they may end contact with you at that point. Your goal is to get as many scholarship offers as you can, and god forbid you list 5 schools that never offer only to alienate the one that would have. DON'T BURN ANY BRIDGES. Play the game to your advantage even if it means stroking the ego of a program you have no interest in. You never know which programs will offer and which ones won't.

When filling out these questionnaires make sure to be honest, but there is nothing wrong with adding an inch to your height (if you're an inch under what they like) and maybe 10 pounds to your weight if you're a little lighter then they like. I'm not telling you to be a liar and really stretch the truth a mile...just an inch or so. Odds are you'll grow at least an inch before you graduate, and put on at least 10 pounds. If you don't think colleges do this themselves then look at their official rosters....look at a player's height, weight, and 40 time...then compare those numbers to that player's NFL combine numbers. You might be amazed how much those players shrunk and how much slower they got when the NFL officially measured them! Hint...Hint

The next type of mail you may get will be hand signed or hand written letters, cards, or notes. It's a safe bet that the program sending these actually knows who you are, and they have a sincere interest in you. It's a good sign when you get these types of letters.

I suggest keeping a list of every school sending you mail. I also suggest that you call the coach from that school that recruits your area, and thank them for the letter. Touch base with them and let them know that you appreciate their interest, and look forward to learning more about their program. They may or may not know who you are when you call BUT you have made contact with them and put your name in their head AND you have let them know that you're interested in their program. You can call a coach whenever, and as often as you like BUT the coaches are limited to when and how often they can call you. You can look on the NCAA link to the right, and look up the "recruiting calender" to see when coaches are allowed to do what.

Whenever you talk to a coach...keep a few notes on your conversation so when they do call you a month or so down the road...you can look at your notes, and reference them during your conversation. A coach may be very impressed when he calls you and you ask him "How's your daughter doing? I know you were excited about her softball game last time we talked." The coach will think, "This kid really has an interest in us if he remembers what we talked about a month ago." Again...play the game to your advantage.

This covers the three main types of mail you will get during the recruiting process, and some tips on how to respond to them. If you have a question post a comment or email me at: RecruitingInsider.Mark@gmail.com

Monday, March 3, 2008

Academic Eligibility

I want to talk about the academic side of recruiting. I realize that this will apply to each individual differently, but there are certain rules that apply to everyone.

First: You need to know what the NCAA requires in order for you to be eligible. What your school requires for you to graduate can be (and most likely is) different from what the NCAA requires. It's important that you look into this right away. There's a link to the NCAA Eligibility Center to the right of this blog.

Different divisions have different requirements so what applies to a division one program may not apply to a division two or three program. You should meet with your high school guidance counselor as soon as possible, and go over your current transcript to see where you are. It's important that the parent and the athlete stay on top of this because no-one will watch it closer then you. Make sure that you're meeting the graduation requirements for your school, AND the NCAA requirements. You can graduate, but if you're not eligible per the NCAA, a college will not give you a scholarship. Most parents and students do not realize that there are two different sets of requirements. The sooner you get on the right track the better.

The NCAA site will cover the required courses, and there is even a section where you can look at your particular high school, and see what classes your school offers to meet the NCAA requirements. This is also a great way to compare your current transcript to the required classes, and see what you already have.

I know there are currently 16 core classes that the NCAA requires to be eligible for DI competition. The web site will tell you what they are.

Second: You must register with the NCAA Clearinghouse. The above mentioned site will also allow you to register for the clearinghouse. You should do this no later then your junior year or at the beginning of your senior year. This is required by the NCAA, and this is how they tract your eligibility. There is a fee, but I think the fee is waved if you meet certain requirements.

Third: Take the SAT and the ACT as often as you can. The official web sites for both are to the right of this post. You can register there, see the test dates, and get your scores all on these sites. There is NO PENALTY for how many times you take these tests, and the NCAA and the universities only count your highest scores. There is a "sliding scale" that applies to division one programs only. The sliding scale takes your core GPA (from high school) into cnsideration when deciding if you're eligible. The higher your core GPA the lower you can score on the SAT and the ACT to be eligible. Again...this applies to DI programs only, and you can find this information on the NCAA site to the right. Also: the NCAA Clearinghouse no longer accepts SAT or ACT score reports from your school or any source other then the testing center itself! When you register to take these tests YOU MUST choose the NCAA as one of the places to receive your scores. They will not accept scores from any other source...period!

Summing things up: Get with your school guidance counselor ASAP and go over your transcript to make sure you're on pace to graduate AND meet the NCAA's requirements, register for the NCAA Clearinghouse, take the SAT and the ACT as often as you can, and make sure you send a score report directly from the testing center to the NCAA Clearinghouse.

I hope this helps point you in the right direction, and as always: If you have a question post a comment or email me at: RecruitingInsider.Mark@gmail.com